Invitations often Include Initials and may Inhibit the Inventory of one’s guest list.
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The dilemma about whether to change one’s initials (name) after marriage cuts into the very soul of who we are.
- Adopt a new name together
- Hyphenate your names
- She takes his name
- He takes her name
- Use one name personally and one name professionally
- Nothing, nada, zilch
Changing her name to his is the most common choice but one that comes with many headaches.
For Australians, the wedding certificate you sign on your wedding day may not be sufficient in order to change your name. To obtain an official version you will have to apply to the Registry of Birth, Deaths & Marriages. This will vary from state to state.
Medicare
A form is required, which can be obtained from the Medicare website or at a medicare office. You will require appropriate ID including your marriage certificate.
Using the official BDM (Briths, Deaths. Marriages) certificate you are able to change your passport to your married name for free within one year of your marriage. You will need to fill out the form and have it witnessed and then send the appropriate ID plus the official BDM marriage certificate.
As to whether to book your honeymoon in your maiden name or married name – unless you have a good deal of time in between the wedding and honeymoon it’s a good idea to book everything in your maiden name to avoid confusion with hotels, customs and the like. Don’t worry you can still play the honeymoon card!
Will
Your Will, is invalid upon marriage, so be sure to have this updated with your lawyer to make sure everything is covered!
To change your name on the electoral roll you can download a form off the website or visit your local representatives office.
Drivers License
Go to your nearest customer service centre with you BDM certificate and other ID.
Car Registration
Varying from state to state you will require your marriage certificate to change this at your state’s motor registration centre.
House Mortgage
Changing the name on your house mortgage can be a big hassle. It’s best to check directly with your provider to see if there are extra charges for changing your name.
Other places you will have to consider
- Mobile and landline phone accounts
- Loans
- Gas, water & electricity accounts
- Library card
- Frequent Flyer programs
- Superannuation
- Insurance policies
- Memberships
- Subscriptions
- Store Accounts
- Email addresses & email signature
Name Change Kit from The Smart Bride
While most forms are available online you may consider buying a hard copy or emailed name change kit which contains most of the necessary forms to change your name.
Thank you for this! I was wondering how to go about the whole name change thing, and now I know where to start!
wow, thanks for this. thisis one of the most comprhenesive lists on this subject that i have seen yet.
Thank you so much for this, I’ve been debating for months what to do… and our date is getting closer and closer. My fiance just laughs when I mention picking a new last name together, ha! 🙂
Love your blog, btw!
I still haven’t done this! Thanks for the reminder 🙂
Question:Isn’t “The Smart Bride” an Austrailian company? Are the forms applicable to those of us living in the US?
Hi Jelly,
You’re right The Smart Bride is an Australian business- but I’m Australian and the advice on this post probably only applies to Australians.
There are quite a few US options such as this one http://www.weddingvendors.com/name-change-kit/ for American Brides
maidennamechange.com is a new company in the US that does something similar for American brides.
Thanks Liene!