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Non-traditional Wedding Inspo | Kate & Pat Break The Rules … And It Is Sublime!

11.12.18
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Weddings take on a special magic after sunset. Think city lights, candlelit tables, bold night photography, and unexpected moments.

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The best wedding photos don't stop when the sun go The best wedding photos don't stop when the sun goes down. In fact, some of the most memorable moments happen after dark! From candlelit speeches and romantic first dances to packed dance floors and sparkler exits. But creating beautiful evening wedding photographs takes more than good timing; it starts with thoughtful planning.⁠ ⁠ For our After Dark issue, photographer @normanyapphotography is sharing the behind-the-scenes considerations every couple should know before their wedding day. From lighting and timelines to working with your venue and photographer, these expert tips will help you make the most of every moment after sunset.⁠ ⁠ Whether you're planning a black-tie celebration, a marquee reception or an intimate candlelit dinner, this is one article you'll want to save for later.⁠ ⁠ Head to the link in our bio to read the full story.⁠ ⁠ Photography: @normanyapphotography⁠ ⁠ [Image description: A newlywed couple make a joyful entrance onto the dance floor during their evening wedding reception. The groom wears a traditional ivory sherwani, while the bride is dressed in a vibrant red embroidered lehenga. Holding hands with their arms raised in celebration, they're surrounded by cheering guests beneath twinkling festoon lights in a beautifully lit outdoor courtyard.]⁠ ⁠ #PolkaDotWedding #TheAfterDarkIssue #AustralianWeddings #RealWeddings #EveningWeddings⁠
Post-wedding blues are real. Not everyone talks ab Post-wedding blues are real. Not everyone talks about it because you're supposed to be on a high, but the comedown after months of planning, one extraordinary day, and then just... normal life is something a lot of newly marrieds feel.⁠ ⁠ Racquela wrote about her experience with it on Polka Dot You. Link in bio.⁠ ⁠ [Image one description: ⁠A dusty pink square tile with white bold serif text reading "Shouldn't I feel on top of the world with married life? Why do I feel sadness, regret, frustration, anger or confusion?" The Polka Dot Wedding logo sits at the bottom.⁠ ⁠ Image two description: dusty pink square tile with white bold serif text reading "You're entering the world of post-wedding blues, my married friends, and oh boy is this real." Attributed to Racquela, from A Helpful Guide For The Post-Wedding Blues. The Polka Dot Wedding logo sits at the bottom.]⁠ ⁠ #PolkaDotWedding #FeelGoodWeddings #WeddingWisdom #TheAfterDarkIssue ⁠
“Do whatever you feel is right for yourselves. I “Do whatever you feel is right for yourselves. It's about you and your partner, not about anybody else, and you are allowed to be selfish.” – @maddierosemurf & @nigelmurfet ⁠ ⁠ When a wedding date means everything, sometimes you don't wait!⁠ ⁠ Nigel and Maddie planned their summer elopement in just over a week so they could continue a family tradition that stretched back generations in Maddie’s family. ⁠ ⁠ This beautiful story is now live on Polka Dot Featured!⁠ ⁠ Photographer: @seandruryphotography / Ceremony Officiant: @sydney_japanese_celebrant / Cinematographer: @dh_films_and_photography / Engagement Ring: @michaelarthurdiamonds / Flowers: @kikodesign / Hair & Makeup Artist: @chantellecastromakeupartist / Jewellery: @francescajewellery / Wedding Cake: @Flourlanecakes / Venue: @parkhyattsydney / Transport: @anyboat_australia⁠ ⁠ [Image one description: A pair of newlyweds sharing their first kiss as a married couple at their garden ceremony. Surrounded by lush greenery, the bride wears a white minidress and a short veil, while the groom wears a black suit.⁠ ⁠ Image two description: The groom helps the bride down onto a luxury boat, as she holds a pastel bouquet.⁠ ⁠ Image three description: A young girl hugs a dog that is her height, wearing a white dress that falls to the ground as she leans forward.⁠ ⁠ Image four description: The couple at the end of the night in the elevator of their hotel, sharing a kiss. They both have a hand up in the air in celebration, and the bride has a foot kicked up.]⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ #PolkaDotWedding #TheAfterDarkIssue #AustralianWeddings #RealWeddings #EveningWeddings #SummerElopement #SecretElopement
Wedding planning is often painted as one of the ha Wedding planning is often painted as one of the happiest seasons of your life. But for many couples, it's happening alongside anxiety, depression, burnout or emotional overwhelm, and that's something we don't talk about nearly enough.⁠ ⁠ As part of our After Dark Issue, therapist Benjamin Watkins of @watkinstherapygroup shares a thoughtful guide for anyone trying to plan a wedding while carrying more than just a to do list.⁠ ⁠ His advice isn't about planning the "perfect" day. It's about giving yourself permission to take smaller steps, ask for help, let go of what doesn't matter, and remember that your wellbeing deserves just as much care as your wedding.⁠ ⁠ Tap the link in our bio to read more from Benjamin.⁠ ⁠ Photography: @abouttimeco ⁠ ⁠ [Image description: A bride and groom hold hands during an intimate outdoor wedding ceremony in Toowoomba, Queensland, as they exchange vows with their celebrant. The groom wears a light beige suit with a floral boutonniere and blue floral tie, while the bride wears a simple white wedding gown.]⁠ ⁠ #PolkaDotWedding #TheAfterDarkIssue #AustralianWeddings #RealWeddings #EveningWeddings
“It may sound incredibly cliché, but our absolu “It may sound incredibly cliché, but our absolute best advice is to consciously savour every single second of the day because it truly passes by in a beautiful blur.” – @everafterwiththeparks ⁠ ⁠ After-hours access to the State Library of Victoria? We'll never get tired of seeing weddings in this incredible space.⁠ ⁠ Emma and Gerard filled the historic halls with live music, heartfelt family traditions and a celebration that carried long into the night. Every image from Mia Sara Photography is worth lingering over.⁠ ⁠ See the full feature now via the link in our bio.⁠ ⁠ Photographer: @miasara / Bride's Dress: @thebridalcuratoraustralia / Celebrant: @brookebrodie_celebrant / Groom's Attire: Heritz Tailor / Bridesmaid Dresses: @pilgrimclothing / Groomsmen Attire: @menssuitwarehouse / Bride's Veil/Hair Accessories: Bride's Grandmother / Ceremony Venue: @library_vic / Reception Venue: @library_vic / Dance Lessons: @first.dance.melbourne / Musicians: @doubleshowent / Flowers: @mollymolly_co / Design and Styling: @thesmallthingsco⁠ ⁠ [Image one description: The couple sharing their first kiss as a married couple, in front of a red velvet curtain and two white pillars with cascading baby's breath. ⁠ Image two description: Sitting in the main room of the State Library of Victoria at night, this couple faces the camera with serious expressions. The groom sits in one of the chairs in a classic black-and-white tuxedo. The bride stands beside him in a fitted white gown that trails behind her. Soft lighting fills the room, dancing off the desks. ⁠ ⁠ Image three description: A shot of their two-tier cake after it's been cut. Raspberries decorate the white icing. Two champagne coupes sit off to the side, with cutting knives on the other side of the cake, with a slice sitting on a pristine white plate. ⁠ ⁠ Image four description: The couple kneel on the floor where traditional Korean dress after their PaeBaek ceremony. The bride wears a Hanbok, complete with a chima skirt, jeogori jacket, green ceremonial wonsam robe and a jewelled jokduri crown.] ⁠ #PolkaDotWedding #TheAfterDarkIssue #AustralianWeddings #RealWeddings #EveningWeddings #StateLibraryOfVictoria #KoreanWedding
Known for his documentary-style wedding photograph Known for his documentary-style wedding photography, @leofarrellphoto is THE photographer who lets your story unfold naturally. ⁠ ⁠ Capturing the day alongside you, he’ll be by your side to eternalise every raw, intimate moment, like he did for Jeremy & Ryan here!⁠ ⁠ In Leo’s own words, “I take photographs for art’s sake, for story’s sake, to make sense of life and as a series of documentaries. I take photographs because I love to.”⁠ ⁠ Immerse yourself in the wonderful world inside Leo’s portfolio! Click the link in our bio to learn more on the Polka Dot Directory.⁠ ⁠ !!! Hi wedding photographers! We want to help get more eyes on your work, so check if a Polka Dot Membership is right for your business. (link in our bio!)⁠ ⁠ [Image one description: Captured over the shoulders of guests, this couple kiss at their reception. Wearing matching tuxedos with different ties, the couple holds champagne flutes up as they share a kiss between guest interactions.⁠ ⁠ Image two description: A close-up shot of the couple holding hands close to their chests, showcasing the details of the groom's suit. The groom on the left wears a velvet purple bow tie and a geometric silver ring on his ring finger. His groom wears a matching black tux but with a black bow tie and a feather lapel pin.⁠ ⁠ Image three description: The couple clink champagne flutes as they sign their marriage documents at the ceremony, backdropped by lush, vibrant greenery.]⁠ ⁠ ⁠ #PolkaDotWedding #FeelGoodWeddings #WeddingPhotographer #AustralianWeddings #AustralianWedding #WeddingVendors #WeddingDirectory #WeddingWebsite #WeddingInspo #WeddingInspiration #WeddingBlogger
When Bobby's father was diagnosed with a terminal When Bobby's father was diagnosed with a terminal brain tumour five months before their wedding, Annie and Bobby didn't cancel. Instead, they changed what the day represented.⁠ ⁠ Annie wrote about it on Polka Dot You – head over to the link in our bio to read all about it.⁠ ⁠ [Image description: A golden yellow square tile with navy bold serif text reading "The diagnosis changed our wedding plans, certainly. But it also clarified what matters most: being fully present with the people we love for whatever time we have together." Attributed to Annie, from Making Every Moment Count: Planning A Wedding When A Loved One Is Unwell. The Polka Dot Wedding logo sits at the bottom.]⁠ ⁠ #PolkaDotWedding #FeelGoodWeddings #WeddingWisdom #TheAfterDarkIssue⁠

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