A friend of mine recently moved back to Brisbane and was tasked with getting ideas for a bridal shower/hens. Her cry for help made me think about how much pressure we put on pre-wedding celebrations and the lengths we go to ensure it is simply ah-mazing! Sure, it’s fantastic to get together and celebrate the bride’s upcoming nuptials, but I think that’s what many of us forget – a good time is really quite simple to achieve. We don’t need to over-complicate it with laborious decorations or endless games or cucumber sandwiches (which, let’s face it, nobody really likes anyway).

So here are some simple and straight-forward rules for bridal showers (or hen’s):

1. Feed your guests

Whilst many of us try to ‘be good’ and keep to somewhat of a decent diet, we are more than happy to indulge every now and then. Whether it be a cosmopolitan, cupcake, or cheese platter, keeping your guests fed and watered is a must. It is also a simple way to theme your celebration: think high-tea, wine and cheese tasting, dinner at a restaurant, or even brunch for something different.

2. Don’t overdo games

Have you ever been to a bridal shower where there was just game after game after game? The first one acts as an ice-breaker, the second is a little fun, but by the third most people are eyeing off the punch or checking their latest Facebook feed. If you decide to go down the games path, then do your research! Google and Pinterest can provide countless ideas that won’t induce eye-rolling. Keep it to a couple of games and personalise them (e.g. ask the bride and groom the same questions separately and then read out the answers during the event – cue laughter and funny stories).

3. Incorporate an activity

There really is something for everybody out there – just remember, don’t over-complicate it:

  • Book a table at Max Brenner or San Churro Chocolateria
  • Take a fun hands-on cooking or cocktail making class
  • Go professional or set up your own at-home pamper session
  • Throw on a skirt and go dancing with the girls
  • Grab a bunch of cushions, a chick-flick, chocolate, and you’re set…

If you are worried about it not being ‘personal’ enough, then add a couple of simple touches (e.g. these gorgeous printed balloons). Easy peasy!

Us females tend to always be on the go, so sometimes a low-key chilled event is all we need. Really, we’re not that hard to please. So go, have fun!

Images taken by Ms Chevron – Irene’s Bridal Shower